Here we go again

Just when I thought things couldn't get any worse ( and I should really, really, really know better then to think something like that ) they do get worse. Sort of.

I had a call from Mum last night before I headed home giving me a heads up warning then she and grumpy had, had yet another massive argument, not sure what started it ( but then again I'm not sure what starts most of their arguments) but at one point had him threatening to burn all of our photo albums because mum hadn't come to collect them and he didn't want to give them 'to the girls'. As you can imagine that extremely worried mum and she came round to ours at Lunchtime to get them. Now you can imagine how much that impressed grumpy as he still has that quite frankly ridiciculus ruling that Mum shouldn't come into 'his house' without asking permission or one of us being there. So I went home with some worry to what mood he would be in. All he said was he hadn't had a good day as he had, had a blazing argument with mum and she had come into the house and taken the photo albums. When I pointed out that he had wanted her to do that anyway he just grumbled that she shouldn't come into his house when he wasn't there and that was all he said. He didn't mention anything else, like the part of him threatening to burn the photo albums. So again it's a situation that I know because mum let me know but he doesn't know that I know................ Well If you've read my last post you'll get the idea.

I went round J + T's for tea on Sunday night which was really good fun. Rhianna ( finkz I speltz tat write :-) is so big now. She was a little unsure about me to begin with but as I haven't seen her in a while I think that's understandable. J + T also came out to church as well, abet only for sacrament but it was still good to see them. Grumpy being his usual cynical self wanted to know what she wanted from the church now. He also seemed miffed that he didn't get a invite to go round for tea as well. Which I found really confusing because he's said previously he didn't want anything to do with mums side of the family. But then I also discovered that he he fibbed about seeing j when she went in for a interview at the place Grumpy worked. So I just dunno what's going on there anymore. If he's lying, he's just forgetting or he's only telling me what he wants to and not telling me things he doesn't. He just reminds me of the little joke that everybody does at work using their hands when there's a mess up due to people not communicating between departments........

Hello Left hand this right hand. Hello Left hand we haven't spoken in a while have we? no we haven't. We really should, shouldn't we? Yes we should? What r u up to these days? Oh this and that. and you? this and that? We should talk more often. Yes we should... Wait a second your not my left hand! Your not my Right hand! .......

Well I guess it's a lot more funny when people do the voices and the hand gestures at the same time. :-)

J asked about what I was doing for my birthday and If I wanted to go out for a meal or sumthing. That would be fantastic apart from the ever so small problem that my family can't seem to be in the same room as each other or talk to each other with out some sort of argument starting between Mum + grumpy, or J + grumpy etc . Even going out for a meal with half of the family would solve that problem but would cause the new problem of someone being upset that they couldn't come...... so either way I'll loose. seems that I was pretty much spot on when assuming that this birthday would be sucky. Just didn't realize how much potential it has to be one. :-( oh well I guess I'll find out soon enough how things will go)

later!